Wiffle - thanks for chiming in. What if I go your route and she says she is not going anywhere without the kids? I know she loves the kids as much as I do. This could get ugly. I do not want to put the kids in the middle of that.<p>DD

<blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr>Originally posted by Devastated Dad:
<strong>Wiffle - thanks for chiming in. What if I go your route and she says she is not going anywhere without the kids? I know she loves the kids as much as I do. This could get ugly. I do not want to put the kids in the middle of that.<p>DD</strong><hr></blockquote><p>DD,<p>This is also my position. My WW left on 09/27/01. But there was no way she was leaving without son. We have agreed to a 50/50 time deal. WW went only a couple miles away to be with sister. Because of the close family we have I am not troubled with this. My fear is plan B turns to divorce and then where is she going to live? My W is a good mom and loves son as much as I, I don't question that. It is a screwed up mess uh? I will pray for you. Hang in there brother.
peace.

My best friend is a woman EXACTLY like your wife.<p>I love her. She's my friend but I think she's going about this whole thing ALL wrong. I can't tell you what to do, but I will tell you what I know from my POV.<p>She loves her family, but becasue she married her high school sweetheart, she feels like she's missed EVERYTHING. I am 31 and still single. As are most of our mutual friends. <p>My friend [to the total shock of EVERYONE] left the kids, husband, house, etc. She even left the OM. She is taking time to "find herself". I wish you luck DD. But this whole thing may not boil down to what you want.<p>God Bless