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Which one upsets you more?
You seem to be upset that your W moved out but wants to "hang on".
You also seem to be upset that your OW says "just friends".
Do you want your wife to NOT hang on?
Do you want your relationship with the OW to be MORE than friends?
Were you anticipating this affair to be your "exit" affair and it went awry?
If your wife will not let go, and your OW only wants to be friends now, you are screwed.

I cannot help but laugh out loud over the conundrum you have.

You are actually complaining in a way to drum up sympathy for your situation!
If that isn't the craziest thing I have ever heard, I don't know what is! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

You are ticked off because your cake-eating days are over, because the women have stopped playing your game.

How does it feel to no longer have the control and the power in the relationship with both of these women? I really think that is what is troubling you most. You ain't driving the train anymore. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

committed (and still LOL)

I want to thank everyone who took the time to respond to me.