You made me smile, and I admit it. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" />

Progress is fun, especially when it's people we know and care about.

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More "evidence of coolness:"

I can't remember what I've posted here versus emailed 2 close friends, but:

My W was going 2 go 2 RM's (with a coworker along) 2 get the last stuff from him that he owes her. She asked the coworker, not me. I thanked her for that. Anyway, she was going 2 go this past weekend, but got a message from him saying he'd be out of town (he got dates mixed up, though). He ac2ally said he thought it was the weekend of the 12th, so he musta got his calendar all messed up. Anyway, she may go next weekend with the coworker, instead.

So, she's going on that job interview out of state, left this afternoon, and will be back 2morrow night. I feel quite spiffy. Just love between us now. I'm not worried about what the job may mean, even if she takes it (I don't think she will, because she said she doesn't see how it would work out).

I'm not even worried about her visit 2 RM 2 get her stuff. And I think my letting go of my fears there has not been lost on my W, either. So now, I think she can put all this in2 perspective and we can get going on some recovery stuff!

Over the weekend, she asked me a 2ple of questions about As and relationships in general. Probably 2 see what I'm thinking now. Possibly 2 see if my intentions 2 forgive and be "safe" are sincere. They are. Finally, I feel like I can keep this up, 2.

♥2long