GREAT NEWS!!!! I will be anxiously awaiting the outcome.

GREAT NEWS!!!! I will be anxiously awaiting the outcome.

ZM,

Wow! Fantastic! I am so encouraged for you and particularly for your H.

Savor this upbeat day and this great news. You certainly deserve to have a high after all the lows.

Will be anxiously awaiting the Thursday update.

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ISG

THanks for the encouragement and smiles ladies...I will update Thursday night, until then have a wonderful couple days...

ISGIRL, what's up with you???

D

Hi ZM,

Check out my thread, now titled: Mortarman, Others: Should NC Between WS and BS Be Broken?

You'll see the latest updates, how BIL thoughtH and I should sit and talk, how I weakened, and finally found my strength again.

Thanks for asking!

I'm so encouraged and happy for you, you just have no idea!

ISG

So today was counselling, it went good, we discussed the A and where we are at, where we were at etc. The counsellor wants to see him individually as he feels this is definitely in him and not our marriage. He looked at me straight and said "you do not want him home, not like this, let him get some things settled". He sees us as good people and wants to help, but he believes him needs to come to terms with the A and why's etc then he will probably want to see us together. He told me that I should be angry, that Mic has rejected me not only with the A but now this, so he said for me to make sure that I stay in touch with my anger, my sadness, my happiness etc...So I will hang tight. My H said he will go back next Wed. he is sceptical as he has always been but he really wants to figure this out.....I feel very peaceful right now, like we made a major step, I also feel at peace with continuing Plan B, it will be a little modified, I won't "be there" constantly, but I am not going to be distant either. I want him to know I am happy about this step, he seems happy with this step. This is the final step we take, if this falls through then I know it is time to move on, like it or not.

ZM, this does sound very promising. At least he is now willing to face his problems. I agree with you that its important to stay in Plan B. I think it was Plan B that moved him to this long overdue point and Plan B that will move him forward. Keep us posted. I am praying for you!

ZM,

How are things? You've been absent since about 8/15 and I am concerned about you.