Update on day 5 moving home with Blah..
So far so good,both being civil,respectful though it is rather strange from time to time...2 nights ago(9-16)LT's XH called my cell to wish me happy birthday though I had told him that I do not want any more communication,what should I do now? Just leave it? Blah was there when I answered his call,
it was a "private number" & I thought some of my friends with private# called to wish me happy birthday..at first I was thinking of saying someone else that called but I could not lie to Blah this way..and last night was my birthday,
Blah took me out for dinner,sent me an ecard..it was a good Italian dinner,we rented movies & watched "Anger Management",we had a pretty low key but nice night. Blah's week has been hectic so no birthday presents,to me to come home is the best present of all.

And;LT's live-in Bob sent Blah an email last night but Blah did not check till this morning,
we both read together,he said he accidentally hit Blah's cell# on LT's phone,so if Blah had a
"missed call" from LT,Blah should ignored it..
I advised Blah to change all contact #s,email etc.
Please advise..I know it bothered him as much as it bothered me/us.

Other than the email from Bob & call from LT's XH.It was quiet though Blah is still experiencing withdrawl and I think I have handled pretty well..
we have not sit down and discuss about our plans, MC..strategies etc..will do so very soon.

Much Aloha <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

Good to hear from you and hope we hear from BL soon! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

He may want to change his name soon if he isn't being or feeling 'blah' anymore. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Honesty and trust take time and effort. Glad to see you both putting that effort.

Hugz,
L.

Hey Orchid, Thanks for the kind thoughts..always!
No news is good news right? I am still unpacking,
Blah has been wonderful not to complain about my junks..though he said that I have too many pairs of shoes and handbags(I'm a woman!)Blah is so nice
to let me have the walk-in closet all to myself,
very sweet & thoughtful of him.I do feel like HOME,finally!Next;we have to plan for MC...and go from there.

Mahalo nuil loa & Aloha nui loa,Orchid.
From the bottom of my heart <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

And;where is the Foodie-RH <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> only Bahasa MBer?
H4F,you know I do wish to see you visit me from time to time though...you know what I mean.Sorry.
AMM,thanks for all the great supports & thoughts.
Pepp,you are tough but cool. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" />
Ark^^,thanks for the spanking <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
STBXW,always so supportive & good faith.
Mel,keep smiling & you taught me to smile again.
Mimi,can't forget how much you said your H was just like Blah..blah blah blah,thanks!
NL,I miss you,where are you?You don't visit MB or reply my email. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />
Zorweb,you are always in my prayers.
Princess,you have been gone tooooo long..miss ya.
Dobie,Starfish,Miss M,TMD,TMCM,ba109,Newbranch,Resilient,d_rose(Leilani)etc etc,all the nice people with great supports & thoughts....Can't name all of you that ever replied to my posts,truly appreciated.

Last but not least my dear Rushed Fool who replied once or twice,but GREAT company,supports and,a good friend indeed..with all my Aloha.

I am not saying goodbye,just to thank you all for precious time,thoughts,supports..from the very bottom of my heart <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

<small>[ September 22, 2003, 04:13 PM: Message edited by: wangi ]</small>