WAT,

I am not familiar with your story (but can gather what it must have been, given the content of your letter), but I personally thought your letter was very well said... and needed to be said in response to their request for you to call "911."

I didn't sense that your letter was as much angry as it was simply truthful and placing responsibility where it belongs. I really feel for the ex-wife. I can only imagine what she (and you) has been through and the mental anguish and pain that must still exist for her. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />

I don't know your wife or OM, but I think that letter might have more impact than you think... simply because you basically stood up for the OM's ex-wife, and they probably were not expecting you to do that. It sounds like when they told you, "Call 911," they expected you to comply. I think it is very good that while you don't approve of her behavior (the ex-wife's), you fully understand it and like you said, you hold them responsible for whatever happens to the ex-wife (VERY well said!!!).

(p.s. I am sure they don't like her "harrassment" because it is a constant reminder of the hurt they have caused her.)

<small>[ November 18, 2003, 01:36 AM: Message edited by: LoveMyEx ]</small>