Dammit....I am sexy.....LOL. I wear all of that skimpy stuff (uhumm....not to get too personal). He knows what I am wearing underneath.

I'm so happy now....I think this initiating thing will work. I have to build up the guts but that's ok.

I even bought this bag of suggestions on Valentine's Day for him as a gift. It's a bag of romance suggestions that both of you pick from. You don't tell eachother what it is...you just do what it says. It has suggestions for up to a year. Guess how many times we used it.....LOL. It's sitting on top of the desk collecting dust.

Anyway <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by GreekGirl:
<strong>it's good to play hard to get sometimes <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Yes, sometimes it is good to play hard to get. Underline the word "get" because if he doesn't get you in the end (figuratively speaking) then it isn't playing. He lost out.

And it shouldn't always be up to you to initiate. Just be the initiator for a month or so until he gets that manly, desirable feeling back. If he resists your direct seductions after a month then there's a bigger problem.

To be honest, most married couples would envy you your problem. It's a simple fix, really (assuming you are both just feeling rejected).

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by GreekGirl:
<strong> Dammit....I am sexy.....LOL. I wear all of that skimpy stuff (uhumm....not to get too personal). He knows what I am wearing underneath.
</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">No, no...you missed my point maybe. Go up to him wearing ONLY underwear. If he's watching TV then stand in front of him, maybe fingering the soft fabric, then look up at him and say something like, "Does this feel soft to you?" If you have a teasing attitude and a smile, he'll know you're modeling the underwear with a purpose. Sitting in his lap after you ask him that wouldn't hurt either.

I'm going to stop with the suggestions, as I'm starting to feel naughty. Good luck, Greek.

That's easy! I don't have to be that aggressive. All I have to say is I want you...it's just that I didn't want to be the one to say it first. I think I have to work on the way I view things a bit.


LOL....dev.........Thanks!

<small>[ November 08, 2004, 01:33 PM: Message edited by: GreekGirl ]</small>