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After seven years my wife is moving out. We’ve been through a lot, losing our son, moving 4 times while she was pregnant or with an infant, the pandemic, her mental health issues, job changes, losing family members. But at first when she wanted to move out I thought she wanted a divorce. But she’s saying she wants to still be married just “work on ourselves”. She’s been playing games like this nearly every week for a year and a half. She always has some issue that causes problems. if I react or advocate for myself, I’m the bad guy, she’s the victim. I’m not going to stop her from moving out. We have two kids and she’s moving out after Christmas. Part of me is excited as every week she causes me emotional turmoil. But the other part of me misses who she used to be and knows she’s a good mother and was, for most of our relationship a good partner. Wtf do I do
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After seven years my wife is moving out. We’ve been through a lot, losing our son, moving 4 times while she was pregnant or with an infant, the pandemic, her mental health issues, job changes, losing family members. But at first when she wanted to move out I thought she wanted a divorce. But she’s saying she wants to still be married just “work on ourselves”. She’s been playing games like this nearly every week for a year and a half. She always has some issue that causes problems. if I react or advocate for myself, I’m the bad guy, she’s the victim. I’m not going to stop her from moving out. We have two kids and she’s moving out after Christmas. Part of me is excited as every week she causes me emotional turmoil. But the other part of me misses who she used to be and knows she’s a good mother and was, for most of our relationship a good partner. Wtf do I do Welcome to MB. Did you mean to post this in the dating forum? What mental health issues is she diagnosed with?
FWW/BW (me)
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2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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