RMA,<BR>I know EXACTLY your feelings.After the affair we separated for 10 months.It was very long and hard and I spent a lot of lonely nights feeling sorry for myself.I would cry all night and drink and wake up with a hellacious headache.<P>There is not much I can say to make you feel better.I think it's part of the grieving process we all go through.It is a horribly lonely and depressing fealing.<P>The one thing I can tell you though is to have hope.Even after being separated for 10 months we have managed to get back together.I believe if you stick with plan B it will work in your favor.When I stopped being so nice to him and started trying to show him I was a strong woman is when he started to work on things and want to come back home.I think it really makes them start thinking about what they stand to lose for their little bimbos.My H actually lived with his for 6 months.That hurt me more than anyone will ever know.<P>I did just want to tell you that there is a ray of hope.I never thought after all we had been through and him living with OW that we would ever be able to reconcile.<P>Big {{{{{{HUGS}}}}}} to you!!I know you could use one right now.<P>Tammy

cl,<P>This joke was a RIOT! LOL Thanks for the cheering up!<P>Tammy,<P>Gosh - just goes to show it ain't over until it's over! Thanks for the "ray of hope"! <P>I appreciate you guys BEING THERE...<P>Roll Me Away