Geez, I’m screwed up enough...<P>My Wifes friend is in two roles here. One as a friend to my Wife, the other as a god mother to my daughter.<P>Yes, it’s true I only know what my Wife told me 10 months ago about their conversation. I know the betrayer often hears things differently than they were said (even if it was “crystal clear“), so I can only go by what my Wife told me. She (her friend) lives on the east coast so there is no chance of her delivering it in person.<P>I don’t hold her responsible for my Wifes actions. However, I do hold her responsible (at least as Godmother) for NOT at least encouraging my Wife to try & sort it out. I don’t think she was pushing my Wife, but as Suse said, “welllllll.... I *guess* you have to follow your heart...???..." Perhaps she was uncomfortable in the situation. What do you say to something like that anyway? Well, I now know what to say, but a year a go it would have been pretty awkward.<P>Anyhoo, I believe I will not say anything UNLESS... Oh, I don’t know.<P>But Sella Ward (WOOHOO!) was on the telly tonight so that was a high point for me.<P>Also, I have been working collecting food for a local food bank the last few days. Picking it up from ALL the schools in town. We collected over 100,000 lbs so far. Still a bit more to do tomorrow.<P>------------------<BR>Prayers & God Bless!<BR>Chris<BR>For relationship info check out <A HREF="http://www.pcisys.net/~chriscal1/resources.html" TARGET=_blank>Marriage & Relationship Resources</A>