I tried to be a good husband..... i tried to be everything your last husband was'nt...... i tried to be your childs father... you didnt let me.....I tried to visit my 2 kids every other weekend.... you called it hell weekend.... I tried to keep peace with my overbaring ex-wife, you accused me of allowing her to run my life....I allowed all your homeless brothers to live with me rent free for years, when i tossed them out, you called me heartless....i allowed you to have a cat, your cat's litter box never gets cleaned, and everyone knows we have a cat...I gave you half my house and all i have, you allowed it to become a clutter hut... we own a nice car we cant afford, you dont even clean out the trash you leave in it....I cook dinner 4 nights a week... the other 3 nights I cant be there you feed the kids hotdogs.... you work full time and do lots of house work...and complain about it constantly.... so does lots of other women in this country... thats why they call you a HOME MAKER.... I work 6 days a week and have no life to pay for it all.... and i'm selfish if i want to watch a race on sunday afternoon....when we met you wanted sex more than I did.....now sex is just a dirty thought.....people call the house and hang up.... even though i've never cheated it must have been my girlfriend......and I spend 2 days trying to convince you i'm innocent...your kid goes off his rocker and i spend a year driving you to mental wards and caring for our young child at home, and you claim I did nothing to help out....your mood swings are like a rollercoaster ride.... and you wonder WHY i'm distant....you bust your butt being an elder and teacher at church while our world crumbles.... and you wonder why i have a problem with your church duties.... This is my life, and you wonder why I want out.....