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Woozy,<P>Just as I get done posting to you, I go and read my daily devotionals in my email, and there it is! This is just happening to me on a daily basis, that God is directing my life. God is Amazing!!<P>-----------------------------------<BR>Today’s Verse for Friday, March 10, 2000<BR>In your hearts, set apart Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect.<BR>&#61623; 1 Peter 3:15<BR>New International Version<BR>THOUGHTS ABOUT TODAY’S VERSE...<BR>We are to be ready and able to tell folks about the hope that Jesus has brought to our lives! But when we share this hope, two things are important: our credibility—is Jesus really Lord of our hearts—and our character—do we show gentleness and respect in our approach. The goal is not to win arguments, but hearts to the God of character!<BR>MY PRAYER...<BR>Holy and Loving Father, thank you for speaking your grace in Jesus. I’m not sure I would have heard any other message. Give me the conviction I need to share my hope in Jesus, but in a way that reflects your grace. Through my Living Hope I pray. Amen.<BR>-------------------------------------<P> N E I L A N D E R S O N D A I L Y D E V O T I O N A L<BR> from Freedom in Christ Ministries<P>March 10<P>PUT UP THE SAIL!<BR>The wind blows where it wishes and you hear the sound of it, but do not know where it comes from and where it is going; so is everyone who is born of the Spirit (John 3:8).<BR>What does it take to be the selfless, loving Christian we desire to be? What is needed to move us beyond our inconsequential selfish, fleshly pursuits to deeds of loving service to God and others?<BR>First, it requires a firm grasp on your identity in Christ. You can’t love like Jesus loved until you accept the reality that, since you are in Christ, His divine nature is united with your spirit.<BR>Second, you must begin to crucify daily the old sin-trained flesh and walk in accordance with who you are: a child of God whose spirit is filled with God’s Spirit.<BR>The fact that the Holy Spirit resides in us and that we can live according to His leading is an awesome but elusive concept to many. The problem is not new. Nicodemus was a learned man, but he couldn’t comprehend life in the Spirit. So Jesus told him, “the wind blows where it wishes and you hear the sound of it, but do not know where it comes from and where it is going, so is everyone who is born of the Spirit” (John 3:8). Trying to reduce life in the Spirit to a formula is like trying to capture the wind.<BR>Someone reflecting on the mysteries of walking by the Spirit said, “I think we need to pull in the oars and put up the sail!” I like that. When we walk by the Spirit, we stop striving. We are no longer driven; we are led. “For all who are being led by the Spirit of God, these are sons of God” (Romans 8:14). When we come to the end of our resources, we discover His.<BR>Father, help me to quickly set aside human resources today so I may walk in the strength and adequacy of Your Spirit.<BR>---------------------------------

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Kevin,<P>Thanks so much for sharing all of that with me. I guess things are getting harder still for my 7 year old. My h is coming today. My son would really rather go and see my h's brother and his family. I reminded him that his dad was coming today. He said, "I almost wish Dad wouldn't come here. It just makes me sadder." Then he started crying. I cried too. I couldn't help it. That was such a big thing for him to say. I told him that maybe he should tell his dad these things that he is feeling. I know he won't have the courage to do it. I can't tell my h because I don't think he believes me. Plus, as soon as I tell him how he is screwing up our kids lives, he has to leave. He can't take hearing about how he is messing them up. He tried to tell me that he thinks he is doing them a favor by leaving. I guess I think he would be doing them an even bigger favor by trying to get his act together and get counseling and learning to control his anger and all of that. I think it would be a very good message to the boys! But, instead, when he hears things are hard for the boys, he runs. Our counselor told me to help the boys send their dad an e-mail to tell the all their feelings. Also, to ask him why he is doing what he is doing. Well, we are supposed to go to our next counseling session on Wednesday. I haven't been able to help them with the e-mails yet. I guess I don't even want to know the answers to why he left us. So, I have been putting it off. I feel like a school kid who hasn't done their homework. I do agree with my son. I almost wish their dad wouldn't come around either. It makes it so much harder for me too. The thing is, when he comes, we get along just fine. Just like old times. It makes me wonder why he is doing what he is doing. It makes me realize he doesn't know what he is doing. <P>Thanks again for everything!<P>~Woozy

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