SDS - thanks for reminding me about fishes and loaves. You're right, a little does go a long way. Thanks for being there for me.<P>Sidney - thanks, but how are you? I responded to your post yesterday a.m. (Sat) I'm saying prayers for you, and sending a big hug your way. Have you eaten yet?<BR>Take care of you xxxxxxxxx<P>JT - what a revolting situation. Where does he get off asking such personal questions. I spose he thinks its funny. Yeah right.<BR>You're also right about it not doing a thing for our relationships with our H's. Doesn't do much for us either does it.?? I hope your situation at work improves. This guy needs a severe telling off.<BR>Big hugs for you. xxxxxxxxxx<P>WilliamJ - Temptation, and I was so weak. But I'm strong again now. Thanks for being there for me. I know you will maintain your strength - you have so much love for your Robin. That comes thru so clearly. I wish I had ANY feeling at all for my H. It's just gone. There's no anger, no hatred, no love, just indifference. This is now starting to worry me - I know lostva said not to worry - it's ok, but I have always been in touch with my feelings, and thought that feelings and emotions were ok. Maybe I need to see a psychiatrist - who knows what is going on in this head of mine.<BR>I'm glad Robin means so much to you - that gives me strength in some strange way.<BR>Take care of you, thanks for being there for me, and have a lovely Sat. night.<BR>Jo x (purely platonic kiss there!!!)<P>ALREADY DIVORCED - Thats exactly how I feel, and felt. I was just so weak when he kissed me. I do not EVER want to be responsible for hurting another woman, and making her go thru what I have been thru, and I spose will continue to go thru for some time yet. I don't think I could live with myself. Thanks for being there for me.<P>fairenough - hey, another Australian. I responded to your post about fellow Aussies.<BR>I've just moved to Brisbane, from Melb. I would love to go back, I adore Melb, however, I can't see THAT happening. H with OW - no way.<BR>I am taking up golf - I have always wanted to play, so I'll be starting after Christmas. I'm doing a course with a golf club but I was also thinking I might do a TAFE course as well. I'll see how the funds hold out. I also go back to Uni in the new year - I sort of just let this semester ride. I have business maths and Stats. and a law subject. The law is ok, the maths - holy holy lordy lordy !!!!!!! It's all the xyz/cba % (yax/edc) stuff !!!! And basic maths was never my strong point !!!!<BR>At least it will get my mind off my other problems.<P>Have a good Sunday morning - I'm heading down the Gold Coast to my parents.<P>Haven't read your whole situation yet - but I hope you have a good day.<P>Jo