Brent,<P>There are a lot people out there praying for you right now. That is one thing that I believe about this forum, when people say that they are praying for you, they do! So know that your family are held in prayer.<P>You may think that now I'll go into some talk about letting God handle your situation. Nope...He already is...How are your going to handle it. I agree with several of the others, there is no pat answer or way other than with hurt, pain and love. If your wife has moved back home, please recreate Plan A. You know, it may work or it may not, but your kids will see you living the love and forgiveness that will make a lasting impression on them. In your "story" you said that you loved your wife more than life itself...it ain't easy, but do you love her more than your hurt, your pain, your anger, your frustration, your ego...?<P>As I type this to you, I am also typing this to myself. Hang in there Brent.<P>Ed