Jill for having the courage and strength to admit that the internet did "help" in the brackdown of your marriage. I hope you and your H are on your way to recovery. <BR>I wish many others would take the step you did and realize that the internet "can " be very dangerous especially if one of the partners is feeling alittle "isolated". If you had it to do over again, what you you do now to Work on your marriage, now that you've "been there and done that"?