Buffy, I think you are right. I can not make an effect on him when he is so deep into it, and I guess it needs to run its course. <P>Sweatpea,<BR>Dang there is a burn ban on here so I can't do the bonfire thing. I am not going to clean up their mess either, she must be a slob.<P>Cathy,<BR> i think I have settled down on the calling the OW thing, but Jo and I have this evil plan for her to call and tell OW that everyone at work Knows. Just a little fantasy for me. <P>Weep, thanks for the kind words. I am tiered of this, but feel stronger today.<P>Dazed, Glad you still lurk here, its a hard habit to break isnt it? I will work on my plan B letter this weekend and yes. Now I know. Shoot, it really doesn't feel that much better.<P>Lor,<BR>Yup plan B coming soon.<P>FHL, Thanks for the laugh, although ifI felt more confident driving the trailer I would definatly consider it!<P>Thanks to all, I feel so much better and truely appreiciate the outpouting of support.<BR>Lora