I also fear this happening in my life and it helps,as painful as it is, to read how some of you deal with this issue.<P>We all do pray for you and your prayers will be answered.<P>However, we should pray for OW's soul. She is the one who needs prayer the most! <P>She has three children? She doesn't deserve them...<P>Thinking of you,<BR>Cathy

catnip,<BR>My kind of girl!! I actually am not the kind to do something like this. For the past year I have tried to be "above" her level, but I know that when she laughed at me I just lost my resolve temporarily. Thanks for your response.<P>Kam6318,<BR>Thank you so much for your care and concern. I have read a lot of good advice from you over the past few months.<P>catplay,<BR>You are absolutely right that she does not deserve to be the mother of three such precious gifts from God. It is terrible to think that she will have such an influence on the lives of those young girls. Thank you for your kind words.<P>Hi roadie,<BR>Thank you for your response. I too would like to rediscover the man I was married to before this alien version took over. I hope everything you wrote is true. Only time will tell.<P>Thanks to you all,<P>Peppermint<BR>