10/14 H just left to go back to OW. H has agreed to give me money to pay our joint bills. He talked to the kids, said he had to move out for a while, I now have her name, phone number and address. H told kids he will come home every other week to see them. This will be hard. I am going to try and make house as pleasant as possible. We agreed to just let things stand for now. No talk of D for now. See how things are going. I am hoping this A will run its course. Big difficulity is the fact that H has been working out of town for last five years. So this may not be much of a change for him. The way I feel now is that I am expecting the worst and hoping for the best. Thanks for the support...Will stick with Plan A for now.<BR>Scared