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Re: affiar
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Thought I would jump in here too. As the BS I NEEDED to know that my WH would tell me anything I wanted to know about the A. I asked alot of details, where, when, how many times, for how long; what she wore, what she did, what he did; everything. As painful as it was to hear it was better than wondering. It has helped me to move on just a little bit and we both feel some peace. I think part of it was if I knew everything then there would be nothing that she knew that I didn't. Helpful to me to reclaim my man whom she had no right to. I literally pray that significant time passes before I cross paths with her because I don't trust myself to behave the way that is respectful of me. Everyone is different; this is just what worked for me. Good Luck! CSue
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alr, <p>I wasn't doing so good yesterday, we had ran into the OW boss at a restaurant and all I could think of was either he knows or if he doesn't he might go into work the next day and say oh I saw so and so last night and this is where he works now. I was so worried she would try to contact him at work. Luckily she didn't. Much much better today. I'm glad to hear you and your H have been reading posts. My H hasn't been on the computer since I found the email he sent, I changed his password right away and took over his email. I was able to block the OW from emailing but stupidly his account could still email to hers. I don't think he would email her anyway but I'm not comfortable with it yet. Besides he's not computer savy anyway. Maybe some night I'll have him come on with me to read the posts.
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