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Hi there,
just read your post. Are you still awake????
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AV, Go to GQII and read spacecase's post on page 16. His W is the WS and she just had a session with Steve. His W is farther from recovery than your W. You will find Steve was able to get her to work with him more than other C's. Have you given Steve a call? Don't try to fix it all yourself. Not a good plan. Share the work. Reap the benefits. Have less stress. .... and smile. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> L.
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I spoke to my W again, and I feel its going nowhere. I told her that we need to pick up and leave. Take us away from any temptation. She is very hesitant and she believes that I am only speaking out of anger. She told me that it is over between her and the OM and I need to get over it. "GET OVER IT" How many times have we heard that before? I fear that the way I suggested on us moving away, might have sound like a demand and I didn't want to come off that way. I love her dearly and feel frustrated on not moving forward on the healing process. I need help, but I cant afford Steve Harley.
My finance is tight and I feel that I would need more than just a calll. Does anyone have someone they can recomend here in Northern Califonia? Or can you suggest on another method of healing and moving on?
Please help!
Thanks
AV
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AV,
I only could afford 1 visit with Steve. It was worth at least that. My MC is in Pacific Grove. A bit too far south for you and me too!!! LOL!
Redhat is in your area. He might have someone closer. I think his sig line has an e-mail. When you check out an MC or IC ask if they are familar with MB, use that as a gauge.
L.
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