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#418637 11/09/02 10:02 AM
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I'm new on here, I have a very good friend that gave me this website's information.
My husband of 9 years told me 2 weeks ago that he did not trust me anymore and is not sure he wants to stay together, because he still had not forgotten that I had ran my credit cards up and we had to get a loan to repay them. I no longer have credit cards, and I thought this was over. He won't even discuss this anymore until his football season is over (He's a coach) I love my husband dearly and would do anything to make him happy. spitts@husky-net.net <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />

#418638 11/10/02 12:55 AM
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Hi Spitts and welcome to MB.

Can't tell if you are dealing with an A issue or not but could be. Finances rank high on rocking the marital boat.

Please read the concepts section above, print and take the Emotional Needs questionnaire. If you can get your H to take it great, if not take it as if he is answering. Find the book his needs/her needs by Dr P. Harley. Good book. Leave it lying around open to a few good points.

Get with a good MC (one who is familar with MB concepts would be great) or you can even try phone counseling with Steve or Jennifer.

Lots to do and certainly worth the effort.

Let us know how you are doing.

take care,
L.


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