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Re: Didn't expect this. #420982 01/14/03 09:58 AM
Joined: Jul 2002 Posts: 987 L Lisa in London Member
Lisa in London Member L Joined: Jul 2002 Posts: 987	Neil From a purely selfish point of view it would sadden me greatly if you were not posting on MB <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> However, I know that this (with your MC), has been a source of comfort and strength to you, and you may need it even more in the coming months. Whatever you do, know that we all care a great deal about the wellbeing of you and your family. Wishing you well from grey old North London. Lisa

Re: Didn't expect this. #420983 01/14/03 10:43 AM
Joined: Nov 2002 Posts: 218 UK D Deluded Member
Deluded Member D Joined: Nov 2002 Posts: 218 UK	Neil, I hope you are ok. You are right ,plenty of time later to decide on moving etc. I would have to decide which country to live in UK or OZ, if WH and I split.. The right decision will become apparent. It's good that your dog is home,part of the family,more normal for the girls. Don't leave MB if you find it helpful. You shouldn't have to lose any means of helping get through-you are losing enough already. Take care, Deluded

Re: Didn't expect this. #420984 01/14/03 05:10 PM
Joined: Mar 2002 Posts: 663 P Porsche Member
Porsche Member P Joined: Mar 2002 Posts: 663	I do find MB's helpful, very helpful. But I also know it is a source of hurt and pain for her regardless of how genuine my postings. And I would prefer not to cause any more duress in that regard. If I change my Username I still have a Number which she will find, and my story is kind of unique <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> Neil.

Re: Didn't expect this. #420985 01/14/03 05:15 PM
Joined: Mar 2002 Posts: 663 P Porsche Member
Porsche Member P Joined: Mar 2002 Posts: 663	Oh yeah and she is onto OM5 now rather than working on us. Time to try and move on and hold onto what little selfesteem I have left. Of course I am the problem in all this. I may not be around for awhile but it might be nice to dialo via email at: jenz@btinternet.com Best Wishes Neil.

Re: Didn't expect this. #420986 01/15/03 11:45 AM
Joined: Nov 2002 Posts: 218 UK D Deluded Member
Deluded Member D Joined: Nov 2002 Posts: 218 UK	I suppose arguably no contact certainly means your W not having access to any of your thoughts or feelings so I can see there is a certain logic in no longer posting at least for a while. It removes another reason for her to contact you. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> Take care Neil of your girls and yourself. Deluded

Re: Didn't expect this. #420987 01/16/03 07:48 AM
Joined: Mar 2002 Posts: 663 P Porsche Member
Porsche Member P Joined: Mar 2002 Posts: 663	I too have reached the end of my time here and its time to break away, not because I want to but because I need my privacy from my W. If I can be of any help please stay in touch via email drop me a line at jenz@btinternet.com Best Wishes Neil.

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