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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by cerri: No suggestion of Plan B? That seems odd. </font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> Well, I already did plan B once, remmember? Plus Harley knew as well as I did as soon as I would do that, my H would be looking for relief in another woman. </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">A secret!?!?!?!? Oh...... can't you like email to me???/ <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" /> I hafta wait a whole week? What if I get sick???? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> C[/QB]</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">You'd better NOT!
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Well, I already did plan B once, remmember? Plus Harley knew as well as I did as soon as I would do that, my H would be looking for relief in another woman.Ok, I guess I didn't get that the separation was a PB thing... sorry, you can cover the blonde but the personality stays the same! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> But still regardless of what he did during the PB time, the idea is to protect you from those feelings of despair and hurt and tired and old. (which you are not, because I'm not and I'm 41!) C: What if I get sick???? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> LCFW: You'd better NOT!LOL LOL LOL Ok, I can wait, but you better not forget!! Oh, but what if you take one look at me and decide you don't like me and then you won't want to tell me your secret???? Then what???? C
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by cerri:
Oh, but what if you take one look at me and decide you don't like me and then you won't want to tell me your secret???? Then what????
C[/QB]</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">That will never happen, how could I not like someone with a pink braid and a tatoo of a godess? Heck, I even wanted a tatoo like that once. Only I want mine on my butt, but then I am afraid once the skin starts sagging, maybe not such a pretty picture. I have a book somewhere "Godess, the divine image" that has lots of different goddesses from different parts of the world. Very cool book. BTW, last I remmember you were separated or near it, one of the issues was horses? Am I right? How did that go?
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If I remmember correctly, you and your H were working with Steve H?
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If I remmember correctly, you and your H were working with Steve H? Yep, but not real successfully. I did PB this summer, on my own initiative, and that made a huge difference. We were separated for 3 months, he came home the weekend of my b-day. The anger issues are virtually non-existant. The needs meeting is a process.... and it's not always easy! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> The coach training is to do the weekend followup the same as the couples who attend the weekend. The idea being to immerse professinals in Harley's stuff, and to give you and idea of how much work the assignments are (the worg gruelling comes to mind, and to the best of my knowledge I'm the only one to date to complete it) But although it is a LOT of work, it was a lot of fun too. So we did that from July through the end of the year. I have to say that I was very pleasantly surprised that H was the one to keep me on track and make sure that we got our time together and that we reviewed the assignments per the lesson plan each week. The horse??? Don't go there........ That too is a process I guess, but we're getting there. We're down to one, and making plans for her to find a new home too. That will never happen, how could I not like someone with a pink braid and a tatoo of a godess? Uhhhhh... Some might think I'm a little too rowdy for my advanced years..... oh, and don't forget the bossy and obsessive part! LOL Yeah, I figured the ankle was a far less saggy place to put a tat than on ohhhhh....say leg or butt or tummy. Well the tummy's out anyway, I've given birth to 7 children, it's not one of my better assets!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> Of course the chocolate thing doesn't help either! C <small>[ March 06, 2003, 11:54 AM: Message edited by: cerri ]</small>
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Hey! Ifin' you can find it, bring the book too.... and don't forget the baby pics.
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See, I told you I was bossy!!
<small>[ March 06, 2003, 12:03 PM: Message edited by: cerri ]</small>
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by cerri: Well the tummy's out anyway, I've given birth to 7 children, it's not one of my better assets!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> Of course the chocolate thing doesn't help either! C[/QB]</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">7 children? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> You are a brave woman, that's one of your better assets, I am sure. How long have you been married?
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7 children? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> You are a brave woman, that's one of your better assets, I am sure. How long have you been married?I was married the first time 15 years before I left. XH and I had 7 children... 6 of whom are living. H and I have been married since Oct 2000, he has one D who is 15 and lives with her mom. You do know that I was the WS in my first marriage? C Oh, and brave???? I think of it as not quite sane. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by cerri: You do know that I was the WS in my first marriage? C Oh, and brave???? I think of it as not quite sane. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> [/QB]</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">No, I didn't know, I remmember reading something horrible about your current H, something that has to do with porn or infidelity, but I can't be sure. And I still maintain that you are brave!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> I've got one little bundle and my hands are full.
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