We received the Christmas package she sent. All the packages are marked, “To Michele/Melissa. Love Mom & <B>wankboy</B>.”<P>What a f#cking nerve she has! Doesn’t she have ANY freakin’ common sense. I feel like taking it to the post office & mailing it back! (I won’t) but I am PISSED OFF BEYOND BELIEF!<P>------------------<BR>Prayers & God Bless!<BR>Chris<BR>For relationship info check out <A HREF="http://www.pcisys.net/~chriscal1/resources.html" TARGET=_blank>Marriage & Relationship Resources</A>

I am speechless!<P>Sorry Chris. I don't know what else to say. <P>Lori

Oh Chris,<P>you poor thing.<P>You're right about questioning whether they have any sense - they don't. None at all.<P>I am sitting here trying to find the words to console you, but they won't come. There is nothing I can do or say, to ease that pain. <P>Just know that I'm thinking of you, and I'll send a hug right now.<P>It's ok to be p.....ed off, you have every right. And then look at your beautiful daughters, and think how lucky you are that you have them with you.<P>Can you maybe change or cut the card/gift tag so his name doesn't show ? Just an idea. !!!<P>Hang in, and hang on.<P>Big hugs your way<P>Jo

Jo, I was just coming back here b/c I was thinking the SAME THING! I'd change the damned tags somehow.<P>Great minds, huh?<P>Lori

Helloooooooo!!!!<P>Well now she is definetely off my list for Mom of the Year!<P>Maybe Antimom for the year, though...<P>------------------<BR>Faith, Hope, Love Remain,<BR>but the greatest of these is Love.<BR>1 Corinthians 13:13

Change the tags... good grief, what the hell is that woman THINKING? <P>I can't believe it!

I showed my youngest. I didn’t say anything. She said, “HOW RUDE!”<P>She said maybe I’ll just keep one or two of the expensive ones so we don’t waste ‘em.”<P>Lucky I have a massage in an hour ‘cause <B>I’M F#CKING !*& )($#Q )$*& &&@^%$@) P I S S E D O F F!</B><P>------------------<BR>Prayers & God Bless!<BR>Chris<BR>For relationship info check out <A HREF="http://www.pcisys.net/~chriscal1/resources.html" TARGET=_blank>Marriage & Relationship Resources</A>

As my Mom use to say, "Some people don't have the sense God give a goose"! This in itself is sheer stupidity!

go and enjoy that massage my friend.<P>Everyone (ie your daughter) obviously thinks the same way we all do - how rude and insensitive.<P>I'm glad your daughter felt that way, that may help ease some of the pain for you.<P>Still can't believe it - still have no words for you.<P>Another hug tho is heading your way<P>Jo<P>hey Lori,<P>great minds or what ??? I decided a while ago that I wanted to be just like you when I grow up !!!!!<BR>Have you booked that flight yet !!!!<P><BR>Sorry Chris for jumping in here.

Chris, <P>Her insensitivity is beyond belief!!! <P>I am sorry for how this is happening. Not only is it hurtful to you, it has to be alot more CONFUSING to your girls. Think how hard this is for you to accept and understand - you don't and you don't. How much worse this must be for the girls...They do not have the maturity to handle all this crap.<P>This woman needs her HEAD examined!!!!!! <P>Feeling your pain.....<P>Roll Me Away<P>------------------<BR>"Life is made up, not of great sacrifices or duties, but of little things in which smiles and kindnesses and small obligations, given habitually, are what win and preserve the heart and secure comfort."<P>Sir Humphry Davy<BR>

I'm so sorry, Chris. It just breaks my heart to see innocent children hurt, too. This infidelity thing is so evil. Your daughters sound like wonderful little girls. Give them a big hug for all of us.

Hi Chris -<P>Unbelievable!!!!<P>Just another bit of proof that her fantasized head is stuck in one of her orafices!!!<P>The youngest is right....HOW RUDE!!!<P>She's a pip though, with keeping one or two expensive ones!!! That girl is no fool!!!!<P>Hope the girls tell Mom just HOW RUDE it was ........ when they talk to her!!<P>Don't let it rile you so.....wankboy probably doesn't have a clue what they even are!!! Just a "cutesy" juvenile thing....her signing both!!! She's back to being an irresponsible teenager again, remember? <P>There was obviously no thought put in about what message this sends the girls - let alone what it would do to you!! It's not the real Donna.....it's the EVIL Clone!!!!! <P>Enjoy your massage......<P>HUGS,<P>Sheba

Chris,<P>I can't remember if you've ever said this before, but something happened today that made me wonder.<P>I was talking to a co-worker about this thread, and she said, "is there drugs involved?" and I said I thought I remembered that wankboy was an addict. She said, and I quote:<P>"Nobody purposely goes into a relationship with an addict, and certainly doesn't live with an addict, unless they are an addict themselves"<P>She's a big NA person, and I think she might know a thing or two about addiction.<P>Is your W using? That may explain the tag...<P>If you've already suggested this, I apologize. If not, I hope I'm not hurting you in ANY way. But it makes me wonder.<P>~Sheryl

She might be a little mad you keep calling him "wankboy" too. Just a thought, but if I am right, she is probably pretty hurt by it.

The massage was simply fantastic. I feel good but <B>I’M STILL PISSED OFF!</B><P>nb, Here’s what I do know about the drugs. Before I found out a friend of hers had leukemia or something. Anyway, she was going through chemotherapy. I suggested to my Wife to tell her to smoke some pot to relieve the symptoms of the chemo & get her appetite back (7-11, Snickers and Pepsi. MUNCHIES!). My Wife got some and “kept” it for her or so she told me. She did smoke it. I don’t know how often, but I found out later that she got it from wankboy. Also, my Wife had asked another friend who owns a heating business where she could get some “bennies” because as a subcontractor, they had to get the job done & sometimes worked all night.<P>He’s been single & travels all around the country, so he probably lives in bars & clubs looking to “get some.” I would venture a very educated guess she’s smoking pot, taking uppers & drinking quite a bit.<P>nonplused, I don’t call him wankboy to her. I’ve never called him that in front of her. We don’t talk about us or them. Just work and idle chit chat.<P>------------------<BR>Prayers & God Bless!<BR>Chris<BR>For relationship info check out <A HREF="http://www.pcisys.net/~chriscal1/resources.html" TARGET=_blank>Marriage & Relationship Resources</A>

Chris,<BR>So sorry. It seems your w and my stbx are having a contest to see who can be more insensitive!<P>I probably have that to look forward to also!<P>Bob<P>------------------<BR>"You can't always get what you want! But if you try real hard,you might just find, you get what you need!"<BR>Mick Jagger<BR>

Unbelievable, Chris. My jaw dropped. <P>I feel so much for your situation, what a mess she has created. What is going through her brain?? No words...just know people are praying for you and those two girls. <P>

Chris<P>N_B is right about the addict thing. I know from my own personal experience.<P>Go ahead and cuss some more. Get it all out.<P>Cranial-Rectitis is a very debilitating disease. It robs one of al logical thinking.<P>I'm sitting here cussing her insencitive self right now.<P>I call it the triangle of self-obsession. Whenpeople are caught in it they could give a s..t about anyone but themselves.<P> <B>INFIDELITY SUCKS</B><P>At least your Ds see it for what it is.<P> <B> F-ING RUDE</B><P>Hang in <P>Bill<P>------------------<BR>BB<BR>

Chris,<P>Like Sheba says, she's back to being an irresponsible teenager, in a way you represent the parent who doesn't like her boyfriend because he's "this" or "that" or because he smokes pot, what does the adolescent do? Keeps going out with the boyfriend and smoke pot with him. This adolescent wishes to make all parts of her life blend because that would solve everything; it would cure depression, would alleviate the pressure, all without having to make a decision. I say she sent the gifts that way because right now she need to unify her two lives; she has created this fantastic world with wankboy while in the real world she's still a mother and (consciously or unconsciously) still a wife.<P>So don't take it personal (although infidelity is VERY personal, I know that). Betrayers are screwed up, so we betrayed have to stay in one piece for our sake and in the sake of our kids.<P>Alex<P>------------------<BR>Live and learn

Hey, I just thought of a few things. First off I didn’t get anything from Donna & wankboy! <P>Maybe I should send his parents a card something like this.<P>“Merry Christmas Mr & Mrs wankboy.<BR>I hope my Wife is not causing much trouble”<P>Perhaps they are engaged now?!?<P>------------------<BR>Prayers & God Bless!<BR>Chris<BR>For relationship info check out <A HREF="http://www.pcisys.net/~chriscal1/resources.html" TARGET=_blank>Marriage & Relationship Resources</A>