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Gwen...I'm going to have to agree with Elixir on this one. Sorry to be so harsh. The OW did write me and she really pissed me off. Oh yeah..sure she threw a apology in....but then she started stating how much my H means to her and that no one can ever take that away from her..no one!<P>That sure made me feel like getting a 2x4 and beating the living crap out of her. I'll never forget it.<P>I think that it you want to apologize...be sincere and it should be to apologize...NOT to make yourself look like the good guy in all of this. What I mean is, NOT for your benefit. Hope that makes sense. Good luck in whatever you decide to do....
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Gwen....<P>I was just re-reading your Post. You mentioned that the affair ended ALMOST a year ago? That's awhile now.<P>Can you just NOT contact them. If you do..and this married couple are recovering from the affair, then it might bring conflict in their recovery...know what I mean?<P>I think it would be best to just leave them alone. Please don't ruin their holidays.<p>[This message has been edited by NoTrust (edited December 20, 1999).]
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I agree, it has been over a year now, they are probably getting past it and a YEAR LATER you want to clear your conscience!! I DON'T THINK SO!!! LEAVE THEM ALONE!! If you carry guilt that is your own fault, don't INTERRUPT this womans life AGAIN, because you need redemption! YOU SHOULD HAVE DONE IT A YEAR AGO....PLEASE LEAVE THIS WOMAN ALONE!! I'm sure she has had enough of you!
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