A little light just flashed before my eyes. I can see how sending PBL to ow would cause her to react. But isin't a little much - after the fight. If I had had no bump in's with ow I would feel different but I do feel a little wierd sending that to her, especailly with the strong consideration to press charges. I can have someone else deliver it to his job. But if I have to deliver it I will be good. Totally emotionless <img border="0" title="" alt="[Embarrassed]" src="images/icons/blush.gif" />

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by MYB:
<strong>A little light just flashed before my eyes. I can see how sending PBL to ow would cause her to react. But isin't a little much - after the fight. If I had had no bump in's with ow I would feel different but I do feel a little wierd sending that to her, especailly with the strong consideration to press charges. I can have someone else deliver it to his job. But if I have to deliver it I will be good. Totally emotionless <img border="0" title="" alt="[Embarrassed]" src="images/icons/blush.gif" /> </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Why would you feel weird? So you had a fight.... you still want to save your marriage and you still want her to know that, and you are simply letting her know that you are setting boundaries with your H.

Ok, so it's a little weird after you duke it out.... but at least there's no pretense of friendliness. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

C

Attachment to OW....Little Long

It must be no secret to you that the man you call your boyfriend is in fact married. I realize how hard this must be on you. I am not concerned with the circumstances that lead you to approach and assault me last Saturday. I have apologized to your son, in exchange for an opportunity to hear straight from the horses mouth my husband attempt to cut of contact with you. I listened to you on the phone with my husband begging him not to end your “friendship.” And trying to justify your behavior and convince him that he has no reason not to want to see or talk to you again, as it wasn’t your fault. At any rate, I will not waste time telling you how many times I’ve been with my husband since he’s so called been your boyfriend, that is irrelevant. The bottom line is that regardless of what you choose to call him, by law, and under the eyes of God, he is my husband. I am here now, I was here when you came, and find it no surprise that I will be here when you’re gone. I am not here to fight you, argue, or harass you I am here strictly for the preservation of my family. Your continued contact with my husband is a direct interference with that which God has brought together. irregardless of the sincerity or lack there of in my apology to your son, you must realize that your repeadeted choice to be involved with a married man has put your son, who so needed my apology; right in the middle of a very nasty, adult situation. Do the right thing for yourself and your own child and discontinue contact with my husband.

<small>[ August 15, 2003, 03:03 PM: Message edited by: MYB ]</small>

Is she married?

apparently, happily divorced

Also, what about harrasment. This is a very nasty woman. From the first time she met me she has tried to get me out of the picture tried to make my life He$$. I should check to see if he married her first... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> Becuase she acts like it.

1. calling police on me
2. Threatening to file harrasment charges
3. If I don't like her don't bring the kids
around
4. Last Saturday's attack
5. reportedly she wants to press charges gainst me because of that.

I don't want to send anything to her and have her press charges. Tricky, Tricky.

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by MYB:
<strong>I don't want to send anything to her and have her press charges. Tricky, Tricky.</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I'm not seeing how copying someone on a letter to someone else, and then including a personal note asking that they please stop their relationship with YOUR SPOUSE can be construed as harassment. You aren't threatening or abusing her in any way.

What is this world coming to when we can lie to, cheat on and betray our spouses and friends, but we have to be afraid of a harassment suit when we send a letter asking that the sacredness of our marriage be respected. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" />

C.... off for the weekend....