</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by RJP:
<strong>Well, guess what. just about everyone here was wrong. .....</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Hey, you get what you pay for! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> No, seriously, I'm glad Jenn was able to help you out. She knows much more of your story and talking directly with a professional for 45 minutes or so I'm sure is much more productive than a few e-mails. Good luck to you with the next step. I know it won't be easy. Make sure it won't look like you are abandoning the family. Make sure you have some good support structure for you as well as to handling communicatins between you and your W.

HoFS

RJP,

Hey, the $5 is on the way (what's your email address?? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> ).

That's why it pays to be talking with one of the pros. We don't have the benefit of the training, and we haven't spent a few hours on the phone with you (or with your wife) going over this situation, we don't have your lbi forms, etc. I also get the feeling (from discussions with cerri) that the Harley's are scaling back the time in Plan A somewhat (I was there for nearly 6 months, under similar conditions that you're dealing with).

Although you should run your plan B letter by Jenn, it's one of the best that I've seen here (mine included), and it should pass with flying colors. Ditto on HoFS's suggestion to make sure that your support system is in place before you go to plan B. I'm assuming that you've discussed some of that with Jenn already.

Good luck...

<small>[ October 01, 2003, 12:20 PM: Message edited by: K ]</small>