Shoni - Space brain, huh? I was wondering where you went!! Don't worry I have that way too much lately myself!<P>You're cracking me up with the Senior references. You're giving me the heebie-jeebie's with the mental picture of it though!!!!! LOL!!<P>Congrats on the nephew Auntie Shoni!!<P>Don't say "coward like all other men"!!<BR>You're gonna get people over here to yell at me!!! I meant WS's H and mine - now shush!!!!!<P>Thanks for the encouragement about my H. The weekend thing is speculation on my part because of the Scanner question from him. I think that he wanted to know if I would hear if he was at work or not and would therefore know if he took time off.... We'll see if he works or not this coming weekend.<P>I'll be home tomorrow so talk to me if you have time from work.<P>Trying Again - Hey there!! How are you? I've been reading your posts but have nothing substantial to add to them.<P>I thought about the cell phone thing but the scanner he was talking about doesn't get the 800/900 frequencies so that is not a factor. I think it's that he wanted to know if I would catch that he took off work.....like I said, we'll see this weekend.<P>It's funny you said that about the calls. One time - a couple of months before he moved out - he went upstairs to bed and soon I heard mumbling noises. I started up the stairs and heard him on the phone with one of the lay-dies he was messing with. I waited till he hung up and opened the door and asked if he was ready to talk to me NOW!! Thinking back I have to chuckle cuz I scared the poopy out of him and he was mortified!! He had been playing the denial game and now he was pinned....Idiot!!!<P>After talking about the details, etc. he said that I didn't have to stoop to eavesdropping on the stairs!!! I said I didn't really listen to the words - I just was waiting for his big mouth to shut and then I knew He was done and came in. He tried to tell me that I was stupid cuz all I had to do was use our other scanner and get the whole conversation....that didn't work because I told him that that would be stooping!!! I didn't want to hear - I just wanted an end to it.<P>So, I don't think he is concerned about my listening to his calls - I wouldn't want to because it would take my focus off of what's important and would only add to my pain. Why do that to myself!!<P>Chris - Don't be silly!!!!<P>WS - Glad you made it through OK!! What old war injuries? I missed something!!<BR>I'm sorry about your miscarriage....<BR>It's nice that they can do these things so fast now. I remember when I woke up I was ready to bolt out of there (I hate hospitals) but they made me sit for an hour to make sure the bleeding was OK.<P>Talk to you later or tomorrow and remember to let yourself be pampered for a couple of days.<P>Good Healing and a Big Hug,<P>Sheba