greatentertainer,
You did good. The purpose of telling him when the table was turned is not to educate H or to hurt H but only to make a point and see what is his reaction. To let H know your boundry ... in a caring & loving way.<p>You should go out even you know H will see OW !. Why ? H will do it anyway ! ... so you enjoy a break too. Let A dies naturally, let H go. You know there is no possiblity of M in this A. SF will slow down specially when it is not hide&seek no more. Take care of yourself and show that you are better than 56 year old woman. Give OW time to LB'ed !!!. -RH-