</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by HofFenceSitter:
</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by persistant:

Ok, C, don&#8217;t take this wrong, but I suspect he&#8217;s probably a bit intimidated by you. Or your ambition. </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">ha-ha-ha! ROTFLMA! Are you sure you're describing C? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">[qb]Actually, it&#8217;s starting the rainy period there. Dark, grey, gloomy, damp, and starting to get cold spells. </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Are cold spells covered in the Second Order of Wicca? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

In the need of a good laugh....HoFS</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Ok, you guys have to promise not to laugh at me. I wasn't always like this. Well, maybe passionate about some things but not like so outgoing. When I was a teenager I was so painfully self conscious that if I saw someone I knew out in public, I would go to great lengths not to be seen so I wouldn't have to talk to them.

With family and close friends I was pretty outgoing, but otherwise I was invisible.

HA! Contrast that with 10 years ago when I met one of my best friends. They bought and were restoring a house that I'd always been interested in. One day they were outside doing some work. I walked up to them and said.... pretty much in one breath.... "Hi I'm Penny, I LOVE your house, can I see the inside? And I think you should paint it in historically accurate colors, I'll bring you the book. And why don't you drill holes in those scallops they'll look lacier." ( they did both those things BTW!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> )

Lots of subtlety there <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

Hoffs.... Second DEGREE.... LOL <[ : )
C

<small>[ September 05, 2002, 02:40 PM: Message edited by: crier ]</small>

Met H at the Y last night and then went to his place to trade vehicles. I want to take my car when I go to my moms' this weekend. More fun to drive, easier to park on her busy street, and gets better gas mileage.

He met with his potential new C yesterday so we talked about that a bit. I'm always so leery of conventional C's. We'll see I guess. H knows my list of concerns and I think he shares then to a point. So he assures me that if this guy starts heading off on the co-dependent/you need to take care of yourself/ you aren't responsible for how your spouse feels tangent that he'll address it somehow.

He's also starting in a group there also. It was a nice conversation. I let him read my Q/A letters I've been working on for my site. He was on my email list of people I asked for input, so he was anxious to see how I would reply to his questions. What a unique opportunituy to give advice!!! LOL Anyway, he said they were good.

Got home about midnight, tired but it was worth the trip. I mentioned a couple of things that are going on here and he said again how nice it is to be removed. So I teased him a little about never coming home. Seriously though, I could see that happening, and I don't know how I feel about that.

I am going to take some bigger steps in addressing some things around here, when I get back next week. There's no way I can take care of the horse myself. So I'm going to make some calls. I think we would give her away to the right place.

The car and the truck too. The car can go to Am. Lung Assoc, and the truck I think I'll just sell even if it's less than what he would like to get.

Anyone want a mower????

Our time together with very minor exceptions has been pleasant and even fun. It's amazing what a difference it makes not to be afraid and not to have my LBnk beaten on all the time. This was definitely the right thing to do. Now...... about those mowers.....

C

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by crier:
<strong>Anyone want a mower????

Now...... about those mowers.....

C</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"><img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
<img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
Wait, you're not refering to your favorite one are you? What next, your weed-whacker collection?

HoFS