Itistime, your last post was good news indeed and while you and your H have a long way to go before your M is back on track, it is a small victory that you should be proud of.

There are other FWS(former wayward spouses) who were in your shoes. One of them is Susan, Krissee, Hope4future, Zoey, Princess, etc. You may want to start a thread asking for their help. I am sure they would be delighted to IM or e-mail you. They are women who can relate to where you are now and they can be of enormous help to you.

All the best to you and your H.