cwmac -

I agree that recovery is a slow process. I have also learned that NOTHING works on "our" time-table, everything works on God's time schedule!

Like I have previously stated - I am patient and willing. Patient because I know this will take time for my H to heal and then for US to heal together, willing because I will do what is necessary to make this work (within reason, if there is something that goes against the POJA then we negotiate until we have reached agreement).

My H and I know who each other are here in the forum. It's part of being open and honest with each other. We have nothing to hide from each other - so no reason to change names <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Thanks to all for the prayers and blessings <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> We need them!

Hello to all my friends!

Yea! Recovery is going okay... It's slow... and very painful at times - but we are trying to do what we can to get past that!

NC letter is getting written tonight (hopefully that will help)!! We are spending a lot of time together - most of it is good!

Just thought I would give you all an update! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

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-rh-

Hi all!

Hope everyone is well. Just got back from our week away together! It went pretty well! We had our good times, so that made it enjoyable!!

I am sad today though - tonight is the first night that hubby and I are apart since the last 2 weeks. It may do us good in the long run - give us some time apart - time to reflect on all the good times of our trip together!!

Anyway - have a great Monday <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Imready,

Good to hear you and H are still making progress. The vacation sounds really good. I am envious. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

God Bless you both,

JL

JL -

It went okay! Good times and bad times (not really bad times - but hard times). We are still working on dealing with the issues that surrond the A and the issues with my parents - but otherwise things are going good!

I think we both forgot what it was like to actually be in love with each other again, so that was nice <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> . The trip together made me realize how much I really love and miss my husband. It was a break from reality (which was nice), but even now - back in the 'real world' things are going okay!

I am hopeful about 96% of the time that this will work!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />