No you don't get spank but YOU WILL GET 2x4 !!!! WACK !!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> . Unless you don't want your M anymore ... you could do anything as you please. It would make reconsiliation hard. I am not proud to advertise my ExW A even up to today. I told only close freinds. It is still hurt my ego ...

If you really want to say it, I would change it a bit though ... "
Hi this is Tim I am unable to answer the phone right now please leave a message. If you are looking for kim she is no longer here. She can be reached on her cell phone if you have the number or at kevin ######'s house. Thanks."

Again do nothing about her ...

-rh-

Just gor back from a weekend outing camping. Neck/shoulder/arm ache all the time, but at least the company was great. Last night my son and 4 grandkids stopped for a couple of hours. My son said his mom had called him and asked him to bring the kids to the "farm". He asked if "he" was going to be there and she said yes, my son said no, I don't want the kids around him. I said good job. He said he has told her this many times and decided to come see me instead. Brought a tear to my eye that he is standing by his principles. That should have stuck a thorn in his mom alittle, I hope.

Tim,

You will find out who are your freinds and who are your "true" family.

-rh-

Thanks redhat, you are right as always.

Went out for dinner with my brother today (He and his wife divroced 3 years ago after he had a fling with someone he met online, and after 5 months being divorced he realized it was a mistake and they got back together) and he told me my wife had spoke to his wife a week ago saturday and was asking her about lawyers. Maybe she is going to make the move and file and not wait for me to do it. Kind of depressing, but not much a person can do about it. Will have to wait and see, but not looking any better now. I sometimes wonder if she is not doing this modeling after what they went through because my brothers wife is the only person she really wanted to talk to. His wife of course was the innocent one in that case, but maybe she sees how well they turned out afterwards or maybe she is really serious about this guy. I'm pretty sure if this goes all the way that "if" she tries to get back together after that much damage is done, I might want to, but if she accused me of being controlling before, there would definitely be rules in place before I took her back, if I did. Time will tell. Need lots of prayers now, thats for sure. I'm going to go through our asset list again and double check things.