Hey Sheryl,<P>I'm thinking about you.<P>My H has said that his New Year's resolution is to go to the Dr, so hopefully he'll be on medication soon. I feel for you, I know exactly where you are.<P>If we don't continue to show we care, and to love them, can anyone else do it, like we can !!!???<P>Hang on, and I'm sending a big hug your way.<P>Jo

<B>terri</B>,<P>It's just as frustrating for me!! I can see how close we are, but there are some things I just can't get past, and some things he can't get past. I'd like to think that my therapy is helping (and it IS ) but I cannot put this thing back together alone (which comes back to my original feeling of working all by myself). <P>Some days, the forum is the thing that makes me want to cry too!! And when you said "just because someone seems to be in a better place, doesn't mean they really are..." I nodded my head in total agreement!<P>terri, I am honestly afraid right now. I'm afraid for David and the choices he's making, and I'm afraid they will be so far-reaching that we will never get past them. We've both made errors in judgement, and my worst errors are with my mouth... his are errors that can kill him. Seriously. He needs help so much and just won't get it, he runs instead and it scares me to death.<P>Thanks for the continued hugs and prayers...<P>Hello <B>Jo</B>,<P>I sure wish David's resolution would be to go to the doc. He tried, but because he wasn't eating the meds made him sick and it was a Catch 22 thing. Take the med, feel better in the head, sick in the stomach... and that's if he could continue them long enough to take effect in his head (most take about 2 weeks, as you know). Very frustrating.<P>Re: <BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>If we don't continue to show we care, and to love them, can anyone else do it, like we can !!!???<HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>Honey, I'm there with you. There is NOBODY else. He has one friend, and unfortunately, this one friend is feeling a bit used lately. The problem is of David's making, his poor communication skills and his running from the truth instead of facing the problems... it's really a big mess. So, he has nobody else to go to...<P>I'm hangin'...and a big hug back at ya!!<P><BR>------------------<BR>~Sheryl<P>Nobody knows what you want except you, and nobody will be as sorry as you if you don't get it. ~Barry Manilow<P><p>[This message has been edited by new_beginning (edited January 02, 2000).]