Hang in there Monty !. You did the right thing. When you are dealing with WW, you are dealing with her addictions. Watch out for your teenage D, make sure she is street smart and has a lock on her bed room. Start writing a event journal, date/time/event, you might need it to remember the event so that you could use it in the court if you have to.

-rh-

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by redhat:
<strong>Hang in there Monty !. You did the right thing. When you are dealing with WW, you are dealing with her addictions. Watch out for your teenage D, make sure she is street smart and has a lock on her bed room. Start writing a event journal, date/time/event, you might need it to remember the event so that you could use it in the court if you have to.

-rh-</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Hummm!? Yes I see what you mean about the lock. My W is very good looking for her age, but my D is much better looking and with an abusive achololic around...... I will start thinking about full custody if it comes to divorce or even a lingering Plan B. My W has put a lot of effort into my D but now she DOES act like an addict of sorts. I have been with her for 22 years, and now I don't even know this person. My W is a classic description of the Harley's Electric Fence Pesonality . In other words she can bend the rules if they don't suit her purposes and can do it without getting caught. I didn't know how much so until the separation. She would not knowingly endanger my daughter, but she is overly optimistic and can ignore reality if she finds it does fit her plans.

That last line should read DOESN'T fit her plans.
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The URL for ELECTRIC FENCE didn't work. Hopefully this does.
Electric Fence Sorry about the mix up.

Monty

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Monty:
<strong> ... I will start thinking about full custody if it comes to divorce or even a lingering Plan B. </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Write a journal and try to get a witness on key event that help your case. At this point I would talk to lawyer to consult. They usually give you 1 hour freebie hoping they would get your biz. Understanding the state/county law are the key here. Remember any temporary custody usually becomes a permanent one.

Good luck -rh-