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#471042 03/08/04 05:24 PM
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Chris, Thanks for your reply. I read the thread, but I still don't get a clue. I guess every situation is unique.

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I am having this bad feeling now. On the other hand, I felt something is pushing it down. Maybe the anti-D is working. I just want to talk to someone.

#471044 03/08/04 05:43 PM
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You can email me anytime. I am here. Or post I will post back.

#471045 03/08/04 06:06 PM
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Ny, What is your e-mail?

Did you read Believer's bedroom warm up? It is cute. I wish I had a H like this. Now this WH is not mine anymore. How sad!

#471046 03/08/04 06:14 PM
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Lostnhurt -

I don't have an H like that anymore either, at least not with me. I'm just trying to give a hand to the poor guys here. I think we women have a duty to help them out.

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<small>[ March 10, 2004, 07:06 PM: Message edited by: chris37 ]</small>

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I have emailed you. You should get it. I have aol and I put my MB name in the subject box.

#471049 03/09/04 08:57 AM
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Ny, I didn't receive your e-mail. I will check again. Maybe it was put in the junk mail folder accidentally.

Beliver, are you out there? I am extreme;y exshausted. He is so cold. He was home yesterday. D was acting up again. He yelled at her. Telling her that she didn't appreciate what he did(he cooked) and staying home with them. This is so hard with kids acting like this. I know he is tired.

Chris, I read some of posts. Especially the one between feeling and logic. Maybe my H is having the same fight. How did you get over to stay with your W? How did she survive such a long term A? Did you tell her you want a D? I have many questions to ask. I want to know what is the best action now from WH's point of view in order to get him back.

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<small>[ March 10, 2004, 07:04 PM: Message edited by: chris37 ]</small>

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Chris, Thanks for your reply. THat is what I've been praying for. For my H to turn to GOD. Many people are praying with me together. He is so closed. He doesn't want to talk to anyone. I am hoping that he can open his heart to GOD. Let GOD's light to shine on him. Things may be turned around. I can tell he is struggling. But he doesn't open to anyone.

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I don't have good feelings today. My bad feeling is coming back and I am struggling with it. I know that I should not concentrate on H. I know that. But I couldn't control myself. Oh, how long will this end?

I kept telling myself, look up to GOD. I kept praying. I do need everyone's prayer.

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I am also having a bad day. I got a very sad card from my MIL. She misses us and thinks of us everyday. I will just cry the rest of the night away now, for I miss her also. We are here for you. I don't know if there is ever an end to the pain. I think you just build a wall.

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NY, don't feel sad. At least you get a card from her. Cheer up. We all have to cheer up. I still didn't receive your e-mail. But I know that you are thinking of me, I am thinking of you. That is enough. Let's cheer each other up, we will go through this.

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Ny, I just went out for a short walk. I feel much better now. This mood rollercoaster is killing me. But we just have to live with it. I constantly pray now. Praying is part of my life now.

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I have sent three emails are you sure you gave me the right address? Glad you are doing a little better. I am too now. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

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NY, I am glad that you are feeling better now.

My e-mail is kzmath@hotmail.com. Did you send to aol.com? I did not receive any, sorry.

H came home tonight for dinner, because D called him. She asked him to take her and a friend to a store to buy a b-day gift for her classmate. I thin that he felt guilty to put children through the trauma. So he came home. I don't think the A ends.

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That is the email that I sent them too. I will try again right now.

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Hey everyone, chin up. We can do this. It is miserable at first, but does get better. All my days are happy now, except that I don't have a car.

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D and H just came back at 9pm. Guess what, he is gone again. He told me to go tothe bar to watch sport. he said we have no cable at home(I cut it because i didn't want the kids to spend to much time onTV). I don't believe it. But who cares.

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lostnhurt -

Don't expect him to do anything. This is getting old. I think you need to start thinking about Plan B. The situation is getting too painful for you and your kids.

Check with Steve Harley. He is the expert. Let him know what is going on with daughter.

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