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LL, thanks a lot. Lots of people telling me that it is better in Plan B. I just got to be strong. Someone help me to write a Plan B letter. I feel like dying.
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The very best thing will be if he does move out of his own free will. Then his little fantasy will end. He will realize what he is missing. Please don't take this as a bad sign. It could be very good for your marriage.
Stay calm during this time. Tell him you want what is best for him and let him go.
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Oh, Believer, you finally come in. I've been praying, reading the Bible this whole morning. I feel ok, but not totally. Your words sooth me. I feel like I am sinking again.
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This may be the answer to your prayers. Sometimes we don't know how things will be worked out.
OW may be leaving her H and he may be helping her, or it could be for the love nest. Who knows? If WH moves out, be calm and tell him you don't want to split up family, but realize you have no control.
At least their little fantasy world will be broken up, and the truth will come out.
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Believer, I am gathering my strangth. I hope that it is GOD's answer. I know that GOD has his plan which is best to me. I will be as calm as possible.
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Good. You just don't know what they will do, or what God's plan is. My H suddenly came back to reconcile after I heard nothing from him for 4 months. They are lost. But you need to be strong for your marriage and family. Women have been strong for thousands of years. You can be too.
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I feel ok one minute, and feel bad the other minutes. I keep praying for peace. I wish there are some sleeping pills to put me in sleep for years and wake up to forget everything. GOD help me.
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That is exactly how I feel. I wish I could just sleep and wake up when its over sometimes too. It is better in plan B. I promise.
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Oh, NY you are here now. I feel crazy today. Did you read my earlier posts?
I guess i will have to go to Plan B passively. I am weak now, i think I will be strong again.
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L&H,
I wish there are some sleeping pills to put me in sleep for years and wake up to forget everything.
I told my doctor almost that exact statement last time I saw him in December. I wanted a magic pill to put me to sleep for years and when I woke up, I wanted everything back to normal again.
He thought that would be great money-maker for the drug companies if they could come up with one.
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LL, How are you doing now without the magic pill?
My heart aches. I kepr praying and reading the Bible.
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Me too! I am all alone today and I am cleaning and painting the house red (or trying to anyway). I hope you are feeling better. It is hard to feel good all the time, or even part of the time when you are going through this. Remember if nothing else live life for you! Not for anyone else, just you and your kids. That is what I do every day.
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I feel much better now. H is sleeping again. He is like a dummy when is around here.
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He is supposed to help S to work on the Pinewood derby car, but he is sleepin
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Don't expect anything out of this guy. You will only be disappointed.
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No, I don't expect anything from him. He is not my H anymore. An alien invaded his body.
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He is gone overnight. Believer, you were right, they will do many many things to hurt me. I don't feel good now, but I will be ok. I prayed for peace.
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You sound better today. Now he will come home and sleep half the day.
Try to hire a PI.
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Actually, I don't feel good. But I know that I can be let down by his act. I don't care he come back to sleep at all.
All i want is to feel good myself. Later I will go to church. I need to talk to someone. Maybe call sis.
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