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We live in a fallen world, with many problems. That is why we need to stay close to the Lord and help each other.
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I've never feel so close to LORD before. But this whole thing draw me so muc close to HIM. I think that GOD use this A to teach me a lesson. I know HE loves me so much, He will give me the best.
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Just stick with Him and the marriagebuilders plan. I think you are getting very close to getting the marriage you want and deserve. So slow and steady, keep it up.
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Believer, I feel so nervous now. I know I shouldn't. I keep praying for peace in my heart. My anti-D is running out, should I call Dr. for more?
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Yes, get some anti-D's soon. You are doing extremely well considering the circumstances. I know it has been painful and hard, but keep looking at the progress you have made.
You started out the only one working on your marriage. You may not have seen progress, but it is happening.
And the great part is that when the miracle happens, it often happens suddenly. But we don't know how the Lord is working in this.
Please remember your WH is addicted - his receptors are being filled by OW right now. But what do you think will happen if they move in together? Then they will see each others faults. And will WH be happy staying in an apartment?
If he has been a good man in the past, he will be one again. Just hang on to that hope. Also the statistics are on your side.
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Just hung up with OW's H. He told me they had contact this morning.
I sent an e-mail to him yesterday telling what Wh told me about her. OW's H said Wh's word whehter she loves me or not is her business, that made her angry. Ow said he is not responsible.
I don't know how this mess will turn out. I am having a headache now.
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Repeat that again, I didn't understand it.
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Sorry, I made it too complicated.
This guy said, in my e-mail, I told him about the conversation between my Wh and me.
Wh said whether she loves me or not is her business.
This sentence made OW angry. She said Wh is irresponsible.
I don't care what is between them. I just want my M work, and my H back. How hard is that.
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I am not feeling good at all. I just called the pastor in Canada, we prayed together. I will pray again, for all of us, including my student.
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LNH,
I haven't had much time to post today. It's been a very difficult day for me, too. I'll try to get to my own post and vent there.
But I'm praying for you. I know the pain and confusion you feel right now.
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I am talking to MIL. She kept saying that I need to check up myself, and work on myself. I said ok.
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A lot of things are going to start happening right now, so have some hope.
You need to start taking care of yourself.
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I don't know. He is out again, even did not say anything.
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I just feel like to call him, should I?
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lostnhurt - Are you still up???
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Yes, Believer. I am still here. I am down again.
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Believer, it was nice to talk to you. I will practice the positive thoughts and take care of myself. Thanks a lot.
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Just arrived office, can't help crying. The worst thing is, his office is on the route to my work. I can't go different route, it is on the side of the freeway.
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Start thinking positive thoughts. Also get some Ensure and drink it. Then think some more positive thoughts.
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Believer, I am trying very hard to think positive. Really, trying. I ate some cereal bars.
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