I think part of the reason I was so furious about the A was he gave to this woman what I so desparately needed. Now, just in the last few days, he is giving it to me -- intimate affection. It feel just great.

Let Harley sell him on his program. That's what I did. I more or less said we can try this or not -- and he understood I was done otherwise. We have had a rocky start, but this morning and a few times last week I felt just wonderful.

Hold on to that thought -- that at some point you may feel just wonderful.

I can't say my H does yet -- in part because he has a need for admiration and according to Harley people are admired when they meet other people's ENs so it could be awhile before his needs are met -- but I am seeing some potential here at last.

Good luck...