I am engaged to a much younger woman. I have been married more than once and got hit pretty hard each time financially. I insist on an agreement she will sign first that if something goes wrong she will not take what I bring into the marriage, including a house I almost lost once, which my grandfather purchased when I was only 4 months old. She feels it is like I am planning for divorce. From my perspective, I am not even thinking about divorce at all. We are not even married yet, and I certainly don't want another one of those. I used to feel like she does but realistically, people don't marry with the notion they are going to be bitter enemies in a few years and try and destroy their current mate. It happens though. what is the right approach to this? Is a prenuptual wrong?