This doesn't nessacarily apply alejandra's post but to me it seems that my wife of 3 yrs is very insecure wth her self as a sexual entity. It wasn't always like this but after our son was born our sex life dropped off the face of teh planet. Now i'm 23 and she's 26 so ya can figure I'm more than ready anytime but she has absolutly no interest in sex and whenwe do have sex she's impartial, doesn't really care about it, kind of like feeding the dog or doing the dishes. My question is how do I light that fire and get her back in the game. I don't even enjoy the sex that much anymore because i know she desn't really care at all about it and believe it or not thathurts alot at times. Well hope to hear some suggestions. THX!!