Last night when I went out my H called to talk to the kids. Apparently, my H asked where I was at. My son told him he didn't know but probably shopping. My H told him that he thought I was out with my boyfriend!<BR>What boyfriend???? Of course, I was just out with friends and NOT looking for a relationship. <P>Does this sound like a bit of jealously? This is not this first time he has made comments about me going out with a "boyfriend." <P>I don't understand why he would care if I was going out with someone as he doesn't want to be with me anyway. I don't feel that is right to date someone while I'm still married, but my H sure doesn't seem to see it that way.<P>Have y'all noticed this behavior also with your spouses? I'm trying not to look at this for more than it is, but it does make me feel good that he must be bothered <P>Tulip

Not to burst your bubble. Maybe he just wants to justify his behaviour and if your "going out with someone" he can say see she didn't waste any time.<BR>Who knows just a thought. My H asked me when I saw him briefly in Jan. if I was dating?<BR>(Give me a break I was an emotional basket case.) I said NO... and I proably won't for along time. Just can't think about going there, I'm STILL married. (He dropped the subject)

My H appeared to be jealous a week ago when he picked a fight with one of the guys I was in a group with when we went out. He denies being jealous. He went out and filed for D that Monday.<P>I think Tyra is right. They just want "something" on you to justify their actions.<P>I had hope that my H was jealous too. Guess it didn't matter either way.

Trya & tb,<P>Thanks for your replies. That is really what I thought too, but it does help boost me a little to think he might be jealous I have learned to take everythinh he says or does with a grain of salt as these betrayers are so wishy washy!<P>Tulip