You know, I'm with ya'll. I think the thing which has me currently interested in finding a man at present is the need for companionship. Another adult to talk with and sort things out. To share my day with. (Right now my long-term therapy buddy with whom I've shared so much is temporarily unavailable - working out some stuff with some other people I suppose.) <P>Some affection would be nice but where dating is concerned, this has been problematic. Where women want affection men seem to want sex and it's really hard to find boundaries which satisfy both persons' needs.<P>I've been without either for so long that this is too blamed confusing. [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]