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#672197 10/19/00 04:22 PM
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Well, I'm not real brave so I'll start this as Jayhawk is too chicken to do it. [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>When do you miss sex the most?<P>Jayhawk, I'm a flirt. But I've always thought of myself as a good girl. I can contribute to conversations like this but it's just not like me to start it.

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Cinderella-<P>You actually did it??? I can't believe it. I was too chicken as well, although I seriously thought about posting one for Jayhawk! Maybe I will get gutsy enough to post the next one. Well, as promised, I am responding...<P>When do I miss sex the most... late at night when I am lying awake in bed alone. I mean hey, what else can you do to pass the time in the middle of the night in bed??? It was either that answer or when I run out of AA batteries. [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>Don't forget, although you posted it, you should answer it as well.<P>-Java<p>[This message has been edited by JavaAllNightLong (edited October 19, 2000).]

#672199 10/19/00 04:42 PM
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Cinderella, Cinderella:<P>ROTFLMAO....I'm now at the office and just stopped in for quick check and saw this!! I was not too chicken to this topic, my fair maiden, I was just waiting for the right time. I do beleive there was another who admitted to being chicken, and you will find that it was not your handsome prince.<P>I'll add more later. Back to work I go.<P>------------------<BR>JH93

#672200 10/19/00 05:46 PM
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ok, I'll bite...<P>When I'm Conscious [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>Seriously, I'm not missing it now. Before I got the dreaded "i'm not in love with you" speech. It was something I thought about constantly. Now, I'll bet not even once a week....<P>------------------<BR>nick<P>it's only time that heals the pain and makes the sun come out again

#672201 10/19/00 05:47 PM
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and Jayhawks are NEVER chicken...<P>we Rock....Chalk!!!<BR> [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>------------------<BR>nick<P>it's only time that heals the pain and makes the sun come out again

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almost anytime, but especially rainy Sundays. We'd wake up, do you-know-what, putz around the house for awhile. Jump back in bed, mess around somemore, take a nap, get up, eat, then cuddle in front of the TV for the Simpsons and X-files.

#672203 10/19/00 06:02 PM
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working backwards, what makes you horny?<P>When I was bed with my W and my arm is around her, and I just finished emptying out the mind of concerns left over for the day, which is usually night time.<P>Or, a sunday when there was nothing to do that was important.<P>And this one is controversial,<P>when she is not feeling very good about her self, I hope that my wanting her will make her feel better.<P>hard hat time [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P><p>[This message has been edited by WhenIfindthetime (edited October 19, 2000).]

#672204 10/19/00 06:05 PM
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I miss sex the most at night when I first crawl into bed and I'm still awake.<P>In the morning, I'm still groggy.<BR>At work, I'm horny but working.<BR>In the evening, I'm making dinner and working on homework and doing laundry and doing dishes and paying bills and...and...<P>But at night, when the kids are asleep and the house is quiet...<P>I have resorted to taking a melatonin at night just to make sure I fall asleep. I wasn't getting the sleep I need and I was staying up to all hours of the night. Know what I mean?<P>By the way, what is a Jayhawk (haha)? Isn't that a little bird?<P> CJ<P>

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I agree with Java you little Vixen, eventhough you posted this, you should have to answer it as well.<P>I miss sex the most after coming home when she is already asleep and then waking her up in that 'special' way.<P>And CJ, a Jayhawk is simply a symbol for all that's right in this mixed up world. [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>Isn't that right, Nick?<P><p>[This message has been edited by Jayhawk 93 (edited October 19, 2000).]

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LOLOLOL nice thread to Cinderella and Jayhawk<P>Sorry I can't answer, don't fall into your category. (woo - hoo) <P>Just popping in to see what this was about!!<P>ROTFLMAO!!

#672207 10/20/00 09:42 AM
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cOOker - you and me too!<P>You know, though, probably when I am at work or on my way home and I know what won't be happening. At night, I'm usually too busy or too tired to be afflicted by the lack of it - just affected. I miss it but don't yearn quite as much. A good book helps some.<P>But sitting at my desk in the church office is probably when I miss it the most. [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]

#672208 10/20/00 10:35 AM
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That & College Basketball (Thanks Roy!)<P>I think what I miss is the closeness with someone (her). You giving everything to them and them to you. Total selflessness, only caring about making that person feel warm and loved and safe. But then I'm not really talking about just sex, am I.<P>And I miss that constantly...<P><P>------------------<BR>nick<P>it's only time that heals the pain and makes the sun come out again

#672209 10/20/00 10:38 AM
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CJ,<BR>I just remembered where you're from [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>------------------<BR>nick<P>it's only time that heals the pain and makes the sun come out again

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Don't worry CJ, us Hawks won't beat your boys too badly [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>And Cinderella, I'll see you tonight my fairy princess!<P>------------------<BR>JH93

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Let's see, in Colorado we have Buffalos and Rams. I think Buffalos stomp on little bitty birds. And Rams headbutt--which I'm pretty sure is ripe for a joke of some kind.<P>Sounds like we got us a rivalry!!<P>Seriously, regarding the topic of this thread, sex is not in my vocabulary right now. I must confess, I miss it sorely.<P> CJ

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CJ,<P>If I’m not mistaken, Jayhawks can sit on the backs of the buffaloes pecking away and there’s nothing the massive beasts can do the intelligent birds for what they lack in size they make up for in stamina. (well this is a sex thread still isn’t it?)<P>What part of Colorado are you in? I have friends moving from Boulder to Westminster next week. I'll be out over thanksgiving and may be out there for good one of these days too if I can find a better job. I’m itching to get out of Kansas. As a matter of fact, I would have gone to CU if I had chosen KU many moons ago.<P>I too know what it’s like to be missing sex….maybe it’s just a Jewish thing? You’re not a typical J.A.P. now are you?<BR><P>------------------<BR>JH93

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Uh oh,<P>Here's another twist to throw in here. All of my male friends are adamant that I need to go out and get..... uh....relieved?<P>I suspect if I was really interested I might be out looking. It's been almost 3 months, so I figure I'm going to start feeling that urge again in the near future...<P>------------------<BR>nick<P>it's only time that heals the pain and makes the sun come out again

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I was always told that size doesn't matter...<P>Have I been misled all this time? .<P>I would seriously like to know the answer to that. [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>-Java

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{{{Hey Java....size has never mattered to us guys either}}}}}}<P>cOOker, Almost 3 months huh? I'm pushing 5. Although I have gone 2 years, but that was a LONG time ago. My friends are trying to convince me to be a male slut for awhile. Never have before, but I can have fun learning!<P>------------------<BR>JH93

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Boys, boys, boys! And you think you've gone a long time between adventures. Try better than five years! <P>Wimps!<P>And most comely Jayhawk, this maiden doth most eagerly await thy carriage, be it drawn by brute animals or by powerful engines. Perhaps this maiden shall erase all thought of want.<P>But wait - I must dazzle you with mine variety of metaphor. As far as this sex thing goes, wasn't it Vince Lombardi who said "When the one great scorer comes to mark against your name, he writes not that you won or lost but how you played the game." What game does that mean?

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