Not changing sides, just looking out for my own best interests <P>------------------<BR>nick<P>it's only time that heals the pain and makes the sun come out again<p>[This message has been edited by c00ker (edited November 16, 2000).]

In an effort to keep this thread true to it's topic, I steer you'all back, YET AGAIN, to sex. Yes, you heard me. Here's my question. Of all the stuff we have discussed, and we have discussed everything, what do you personally feel you miss the most? In your next life what will you do differently (regarding sex) than you did this time?<P>Here are my own answers. I definately, no doubt about it miss the passion between two people who have a bond that's deeper than attraction. All that lines, I miss "The Look" that means, "I need you." And what will I do differently--well, that's a toughy, because in my marriage I was the one with the hotter engine. But I think I would take more time to set the stage (like beforehand, earlier on in the day) and I think I would be more playful, even though I am a mom.<P>Now, come on cowpokes. Belly up to the bar and let's hear your thoughts!<P>CJ<P>------------------<BR>Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it.

CJ, <BR>Hummmm.... good question.<BR>I guess what I miss the most is the touching, holding and being held. The emotional closeness of making love with someone you love, respect and care about and who loves, respects and cares about you in return.... on a regular basis. (Long distance reltionships are the pits!)<P>Then of couse, there is the having a roping target available whenever the mood strikes me .

What do I miss the most? It's sad to say there wasn't much to miss. He wasn't very interested. Wouldn't talk about it and it was all business-like. Not a lot of passion, not a lot of affection. And I think I need to move on before I get the blues.<P>I miss everything. sigh. Sigh. SIgh. SIGh. SIGH. SIGH!

I miss the closeness, the non sexual touches that turned sexual, the non sexual affection that turned heated, the giggling in bed, the ouch that hurt..lol, the snuggling afterward, my arm falling alseep under her, the pure animal intensity of the act....<P>Geeze...I guess I miss it all...<P>Bill<p>[This message has been edited by WilliamJ (edited November 16, 2000).]

I miss the look of utter contentment on her face and her sleepy smile. <P>I miss feeling her skin against mine, the smell of her perfume and her body heat.<P>I miss listening to her breathe & seeing her chest rise and fall.<P>I miss most of all hearing her say "I love you"<P>------------------<BR>nick<P>it's only time that heals the pain and makes the sun come out again

cOOker, that was well said. (Sigh)

I think what I really miss the most is all the reactions someone has when you take them to the "special" place. The sounds, movements, reactions, everything. When they completely let themselves go.....<P>Yes, sigh....<P>------------------<BR>nick<P>it's only time that heals the pain and makes the sun come out again

Especially with winter and the holidays approaching....<P>I miss snugling with another under a quilt while watching a movie. Just the physical closeness of being with your spouse is one of the most gratifying feelings I could ever think of. Knowing that now matter how bad your day was, there is always going to be a warm, loving person waiting to make all of your troubles drift away. Then being able to feel like the two of you are the only living creatures at that given moment when the rest of the world just doesn't matter. And you can't forget the feeling of waking up next to the person you feel closest to in the entire world......<P>Deep sigh <P>Lonliness is awful.<P>DEEP DEEP SIGH <p>[This message has been edited by Jayhawk 93 (edited November 16, 2000).]

Hmmmmmm...I just miss everything about it! The touches, the kisses, the emotions, all of it.....<P>Nuff said! <P>Now, what the hell happened to the round-up?? Is Nick the only volunteer?! <P>Mitzi

Yeah, where are all the volunteers?<P>*sigh* just me and my computer... and you guys . <P>Too bad the computer doesn't have skin & body heat... it's cold, and I'm feeling lonley... I miss the cuddling on the couch with hot chocolate and a good movie....<P>So, where the heck did I put my rope???<BR>

It's about time you two little vixens showed up <P>How are you ladies tonight?<P>It's nice for us to share these things about what we are missing in our personal lives, but it's bringing me down <P>Let's get back to more interesting topics like naked twister

Or back to snatching kisses! Did I say that? <hands clasped over mouth in mock embarrassment><P>Bill

Jayhawk,<P>Whaddya mean, it's about time?!! Dontcha know us single moms have to work??? LOL LOL LOL <P>Naked Twister?? Here I thought we were having us a rodeo!!!<P>Mitzi

Jayhawk,<BR>I hear ya... I'm feeling a little lonely tonight too... so here I am.... not out cruising the bars, but typing to my friends, and watching reruns on Nick-at-night. <P>Have I told you all how great you are lately?? Well, you are, all of you! <P>Ok, now, back to business....<BR>Right hand -- Blue.... <BR>Bare left bun -- Green...<P>Smooches,<BR>Busty

Bill, Mitzi, Butterfly and Jayhawk....sounds like enough to play for me. <P>Right foot yellow.<P>Mitzi, watch your hand

Bill, you naughty, naughty boy you! <P>Mitz, I figured I'd get the guys all stretched out over he twister board... and then they'll be easier to rope! <P>Jayhawk, I'm doing fine this evening, thank you for asking. <P>Ok, where were we... <BR>right knee -- yellow<P>

I don't think Bill is being nasty, just honest.<P>And there's nothing wrong with that

Bill!!<P>Don't even act like you're embarassed for posting that! We know better!! <P>Butterfly,<P>Twister's sounding pretty good! All of those arms and legs tangled up!! <P>YEEHAW!!!<P>Mitzi

I didn't say nasty... I said naughty... and I was grinning with a twinkle in my eye . And wishing there was someone around to snatch some kisses from me. <did I just say that????> *Blush*<P>Right ear -- left bare bun...<BR>