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Wow, where did the rest of my last post go?<P>Well, I am so happy with myself today, after letting him take control of the situation, telling me when he would move out, how and when we could tell the children, how much money he will give me, and when....etc<P>I told him yesterday "I know you never really thought I was much of a person while we were married, but guess what jerk...I am a person, and a equal partner in this divorce, and I will not obey you any longer!!!!!! Do not make any more demands of me, I will now be listening to my attorney, and you can forget the small concessions I was willing to make if you had been able to finally look inside yourself and see me as a person."
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Maybe it's my age(24), but I know I couldn't go for too long without it. Hey, I'm speaking from experience! Married for 4 yrs, and it's to the point that 3 times a month is a lot! So, I guess the question should also be, what to do if you CAN'T get it as often, and when you want? What do you do when co-workers are starting to look good to you?(Especially single ones who you know aren't too far out of reach?) Infidelity isn't something I like to think of, but where do you turn when the frustration builds up?
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hmmm, <P>I can think of a reply, but it'd probably get THIS thread locked. (and we don't want that)<P>Sexual fulfillment is a difficult topic to resolve when the partners have fairly diverse requirements. I never strayed, mostly because I was sure the experience wouldn't be worth the guilt and remorse. Unfortunately it looks like I was the only one who felt that way...<P>So.... I always resorted to means that did not involve infidelity ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/wink.gif) <P>------------------<BR>nick<P>it's only time that heals the pain and makes the sun come out again
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