Nick,<P>Yes, I've developed RADAR <P>I can't explain it but there is a certain quality thats genuine about them. I can spot a loser even faster, lol. Been researching this all year!!!<P>Dana<BR>

Dana,<P>In the military they have a system called IFF (Identification, Friend or Foe) I just need to set up my transponder for the "nice guy" code <P>------------------<BR>nick<P>it's only time that heals the pain and makes the sun come out again<p>[This message has been edited by c00ker (edited November 29, 2000).]

Dana - Please share the results of your research!! I'm not sure if my RADAR is working properly!!!

Please, Dana, Please!!!!<P>Come to Nashville and give us lessons. No men at work, church, school, children's schools, all the other places I go. At least I don't see the available men and they don't see me.<P>I guess God will provide when I'm ready but I'm awful tired of waiting. Not in a hurry too much. Just miss the companionship of an equal. Not to mention at least a little affection.<P>Actually, I could be interested in my daughter's ballet teacher. Yup, I think he's straight and you better believe he has a beautiful body. Granted he's always got it covered but to lift an 18-y-o girl over his head repeatedly and to do his moves and teach his classes. You know there have to be some great muscles lurking under those clothes. Has a right attractive face. He wears his age well and he's in the right age range. Divorced from another dancer and has a 3 or 4 year old son. But, I would think this could be problematic and that he wouldn't want to date his students' mothers.<P>But, when I'm ready...<P>

Cinderella,<P>ask him out for a coffee! ask him out for<BR>a coke! just to stay in practice,<P>practice, practice, practice. . . <P>Just get to know him as a friend. Hey,<BR>you never know, don't put a self fulling<BR>negative prophesy in front of the opportunity, just see what he likes, <P>there must be a coffee shop, diner around the corner, to talk about your daughter's progress, and his opinions.<P>and where's your resume! come on, you can do that too!<P>tom<BR>