WOW, thats a smart kid you have there. My son was 8 when his mother left and he too knew what was going on even though x was trying to pass off the om as a just a room mate. When I took him to counseling he said she would probably marry om.<P>You are doing the right thing then. You are not bringing up the facts. I agree with you that yuo have to tell her you don't approve of her mother's behavior.<P>Plan B the best you can.<P>God Bless