Male<BR>age 56 wife 53<BR>betrayed<BR>3 adult children<P>A few months ago, shortly before our 32 wedding anniversary, W told me she had a 2 year affair 20 years ago. I was cluless at the time of the affair. Although it happened so long ago, I was just as devistated as all the other betrayed on this site. While it is old news to W, IT IS STILL VERY NEW TO ME!!!!! <BR>The situation seem surreal(spelling?)to me. The details of why are unlike any other that I have seen. If anyone cares or is currious contact me at lovinghubby@hotmail.com and I can provide long winded details and what we have learned and our current status.<BR>We love each other and will work it out. We have a lot to learn - MB has helped greatly. I have not posted much on this forum, but I read a lot and have learned a lot. Everything I post and my email is <BR>shared with W.<BR>Thanks to those who have helped me without you even knowing you gave me/us insights.<BR>LH

Female<BR>48<BR>Betrayed<BR>Married 14 hrs (1 son-22-previous marriage)<BR>Husband had one overnight fling (supposedly not physical) with co-worker. Supposedly relationship is over but he still wants to separate to get his thoughts together. I'm moving out in Dec, probably won't be back. <p>[This message has been edited by xinlaw (edited October 03, 1999).]