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Ok, are you 'giving up?'<P>Would it benfit you to know? Would it make more sense, or just make it easier for you to despise her?<P>It sucks really bad to know that your spouse is with someone else. And the insecurity it brings. But I am glad I know. He makes alot more sense to me.<P>And, he's being more affectionate with me now that she is out of the pic.
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Imagining Yosemite Sam stomping his feet. Ragal-fragal dirty rotten.....
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BTW, loved the poem you posted. I wish I was that good at expressing myself!!
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I sure hope that his clouds lift and he's able to see the light again, soon. Like you, I know what it's like with the ups and downs. Go, leave, stay, sit, run, roll over. Let's just get moving in a direction.<P>Unfortunately, I believe that my direction has been choosen for me and I accept that. I can still resist along the path but it is path that I shall walk with the Lord. <P>Love thy enemies. She is going to destroy something that I hold so precious in my life, I guess that would qualify her as my enemy. I will love her.
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You answered my question.<P>You have given up.<P>You cant show her unconditional love if you consider her your enemy. Not human nature.<P>((((Bill)))
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Am I giving up?<P>Hell no. But I am accepting reality. If it is happening I need to prepare. It is now May and not long til she moves out. Do I hope that when she moves out that she's miserable? Hell yes.<P>Big problem though. Even if she is miserable I don't think that will change her mind.<P>Glad to see someone getting some affection, my house seams like Alaska in the winter.
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But how can I give up on something I want so bad?
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Oh Bill...<P>>sighhhhh<<P>Dara
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Double >sighhhhh<<P>I when I start reading the things I type it makes me think I'm really confused.<P>I can't explain it. I'm happy now and of course miserable at the same time. But pretty much happy. Why?<P>I'm coming to the place I never wanted to be so how can I have any happiness? Have I given up? Brain says maybe, heart says no.
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<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by LostHusband:<BR><B>But how can I give up on something I want so bad?</B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P><BR>Because you are getting weary. Keep up the good fight!!<P>Come on Bill, find those boot straps and YANK them. I've been doing this for four months. With that wretched other woman in the picture too, knowing that he spends all day with her.<P><p>[This message has been edited by Learning as I go (edited May 01, 2001).]
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Dara,<P>I just called her to find out if she moved our counselling appointment. I can just feel her anger and hatred. She is so short and so cruel. To think that I helped create that is scary.<P>BTW: I'm still in a good mood. For some reason I don't let this get me down as much.
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<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by LostHusband:<BR><B>Double >sighhhhh<<P>I when I start reading the things I type it makes me think I'm really confused.<P>I can't explain it. I'm happy now and of course miserable at the same time. But pretty much happy. Why?<P>I'm coming to the place I never wanted to be so how can I have any happiness? Have I given up? Brain says maybe, heart says no. </B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P><BR>You are finding, better yet, The Lord is giving you peace.<P>That explains it all. Give thanks for it. I've been there too. It feels really good. Enjoy it.<BR>
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Thank you so much. My head still needs slapped around daily. <BR>Thanks,<P>Bill<P>[This message has been edited by LostHusband (edited May 01, 2001).]<p>[This message has been edited by LostHusband (edited May 01, 2001).]
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<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Learning as I go:<BR><B> <BR>Because you are getting weary. Keep up the good fight!!<P>Come on Bill, find those boot straps and YANK them. I've been doing this for four months. With that wretched other woman in the picture too, knowing that he spends all day with her.<P><BR></B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>OOPPS!<P>Sorry, my mistake<P><p>[This message has been edited by Learning as I go (edited May 01, 2001).]
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Life is good<p>[This message has been edited by LostHusband (edited May 01, 2001).]
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I wish I had a job where I could sit at my desk and play with the com all day!!<P><p>[This message has been edited by Learning as I go (edited May 01, 2001).]
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It is hard work.<P>BTW Charlie's Angels Unless your talking about the new moview your showing your age.
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<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by LostHusband:<BR><B>It is hard work.<P>BTW Charlie's Angels Unless your talking about the new moview your showing your age.</B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P><BR>Ahemm, I meant "The NEW Charlie's Angels" of course.<P>Was there ever a old one or something? i think I read about it in American history.<P>Oh!! Wait a sec! There is nothing wrong at all with a woman who is close to thiry. I am reaching my "peak" that you passed 14 years ago BUDDY!!<P>HEHEHe<BR>
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But I am like a fine wine I get better with age. OMG did I just say that ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/blush.gif) <P>Reached my peek 14 years ago, I barely knew what a peek was then.
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<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by LostHusband:<BR><B>But I am like a fine wine I get better with age. OMG did I just say that <P>Reached my peek 14 years ago, I barely knew what a peek was then.</B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P><BR>stomp stomp stomp ragal fragal blasted.....<P>PEAK I SAID PEAK NOT PEEK...<P>Where is your mind Bill?<BR>:P :P<BR>
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